I (34F) am 5’5 and 220 pounds. I wear a size 16 jeans. I am not in good shape (can’t jog) but I’m completely active. When my spouse (34M) and I got married I was around 180 lbs. I have a large/protruding/puffy lower stomach after 2 kids (under 3) and 2 c-sections. My spouse has been on me to lose weight for a long time and I haven’t been able to stick to it. Part of me feels this way because I don’t like him very much sometimes- but I don’t want a divorce because of the kids. He is a good guy overall. Tonight, even though I have lost 10 lbs, he said my stomach area is worse and it is all he can see, and it is bothering him during sex. Then be was mad when I said I didn’t want it tonight. I know I would be happier and healthier smaller. But I also get so mad/hurt and honestly wouldn’t even care if he left me for someone thinner if I got the kids. Has anyone else dealt with this, and how did you reconcile it? Did you crack down and lose the weight, or I am destined to have my husband leave me?
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