Saturday, February 1, 2020

"Well done, but you never needed to lose weight in the first place."

Is anybody sick and tired of hearing this shit? A family member of mine is notorious for it and it is so demotivating.

I have lost 10.8lbs in Jan by actually sticking to it for a full month. No booze, CC, IF and weight training every weekday.

I decided to post my progress on Facebook to "well you never needed to lose it in the first place."

Don't tell me whether I need to lose weight or not. I will decide that. What I would have preferred was a "well done you've made decent progress" or literally nothing at all lol.

Is there a good comeback to this? I ended up going on a rant to them privately about how this sentiment is demotivating when a person in my position needs that extra push to keep going into a new month.

Anyway, rant over and keep on keeping on you guys :)

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I'm (20m) eating at a 1,200-1,500 calorie deficit per day and I'm still gaining weight?

For the past two weeks I've been going to the gym every other day (this way I can ease back into it) and I've been feeling really good about consistently going and eating properly. For probably around a month I've consistently been eating at anywhere from an 800-1500 caloric deficit but recently due to college kicking into gear it's moved to ~1200-1500, and I haven't been seeing the scale go down since winter break.

I started taking preworkout, whey, and creatine. Could this have anything to do with it? I know creatine is a water hog but I haven't heard of it making you gain weight, just not see your numbers go down. Stepping on the scale today and seeing my weight, once again, higher than last time is a really big dampener on my mood and it honestly killed me tonight.

Does anyone have any advice as to why my body is defying the laws of thermodynamics?

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Arrival from the wellness swamps

Hello, lovely community!

Here because I'm finally admitting to myself that I can't lose weight without CICO, and I need some accountability. I'm someone who ate like shit as a skinny kid, became a less-than-skinny teen, and when I went to uni all hell broke loose- I was living off Dominos, had horrible insomnia, and would end up in the gym at 3am trying to 'work off' what I'd eaten. Put on a lot of weight in that first semester and ended up having a meltdown and realising I needed to change my habits and my relationship with food for good.

Anyway, two years later, I did succeed- and I'm proud of myself for it. I used to be a person who literally would only eat peas in the vegetable department. Now I'm vegan and eat about 10 a day when I can afford it (I committed to learning to love fruit & vegetables & it WORKED). It took me a lot of work & soul-searching, but after years of binge-eating on ice cream & chocolate etc I'm now someone who goes through junk food slower than anyone I know, and I haven't binged in two years. I think I have a pretty good relationship with food. It didn't come easy.

This is a really privileged position to be in, obviously, but I've pretty much been trying to shake 15 pounds for like a year. I got sucked into all the 'wellness' stuff and, while in some ways it did genuinely help me, I swallowed the line of 'if you eat wholefoods plant-based you'll lose weight without even thinking about it', which... depends on the individual and how much weight you want to lose, of course. I used CICO a while ago without any problems & did lose weight when I took care to be kind to myself at the same time, but then I started reading a lot of anti-diet HAES stuff and started believing I should avoid CICO like the plague. Except ever since then I've pretty much just been trying to lose weight by more roundabout, less overt strategies. Like eating even more vegetables, or tons of yogurt, or running every day.

Anyway, I've decided to finally commit to CICO and get over myself. I haven't used Reddit before, so apologies if I screw up formatting this! I'm really happy to be here and I'd love any advice people can give me on staying accountable. I know enough not to rely on motivation, but I have a tendency to see shiny things and veer off course. Thanks :)

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A few NSV I've just noticed!

This is just a little post but I'm super proud of my progress thus far. I'm almost 60 pounds down and I definitely can feel it and see it. I have about 40 to 60 more to go depending on how much I finally settle on long term. I'm at least half way there now and that's a really big deal for me that just fell all at once with realization.

I was just casually sitting here for a little while after my IF, eating my egg whites, chilling out and felt my neck for a second without thinking. Next thing I know I'm literally touching my clavicles. I wind up taking a picture to see and sure enough, there's some hecking clavicles there! The last time I took a "selfie" or anything like that was over a month ago and noticed that I don't have a double chin anymore. Somehow. It's just gone. I'm feeling my face for the extra fat or skin and it's primarily bone with a little cushion. I never noticed how pronounced my jaw was or how large my upper chest is. I've always been fairly heavy since late high-school/early-college. I felt kind of like a dummy but noticed that I can also suck in my stomach and see the bottom of my ribcage -- like, there's clear definition happening there as we speak and that's wild to me. The other day I took notice in the fact that my stomach doesn't hang anymore when standing -- like, there's no fold. It's just there, plump, and slowly shrinking. I used to have this joke about how I could tell I wasn't laying straight in bed on my back because fat would droop to one side vs. the other side... I can't joke about that literally at all anymore. My stomach is completely flat while laying on my back and my ribcage, despite still having cushion, are just chilling there with my tum flat. This description is probably silly but it's something small that I notice that's kind of awesome. Haha.

Clothes-wise, I fit literally everything I wore ten years ago. It's to the point where I know I have to purchase clothes. I need a Goodwill trip and I'm super excited for when that happens.

I didn't take any progress pictures along the way but since I still have at least 40 to go I got the courage to take my first pictures so I can look back later. I didn't hate them. I'm able to look back now in like a year and see "oh wow, that's what I was like around 220 pounds." I was previously worried about extra skin but over time most of those worries have quelled -- so what if I wind up having a little bit of loose skin? It's part of me. I still have problem areas where I don't enjoy the cellulite, but I'm slowly coming to accept that I have it and it will reduce slightly over time. Even if it doesn't reduce I know that I'm on the right track health-wise and all of that is merely physical.

For some information:

I started losing weight a little over a year ago. I was 280 pounds. I use CICO, with occasional cheat days but always count calories even if I go over my deficit limit. I typically eat 1300 calories a day -- high protein, moderate fat and moderate carbohydrates. I never go over my BMR which is around 1750 right now. Egg whites are probably my favorite food I've discovered. When I started I had to limit certain foods -- like I couldn't purchase any chips, pizza or ice cream. After going a while without those things I reintroduced them to my diet and eat them in moderation, they're not triggering anymore. If I'm still hungry at the end of the day I'll whip up some more egg whites and call it a day. Maybe bake a potato to have on the side. Overall though, I don't do anything particularly special -- I give thanks to the concept of CICO entirely for weight loss.

I'm just really proud in this one moment and feel a lot of relief. I'm excited to see more progress and know that I'm going to reach my goal and maintain it!

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Daily Q&A Post for Saturday, 01 February 2020 - No question too small!

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Saturday, 01 February 2020? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel awesome and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

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Can long-term obesity be reversed without intense pain?

22F - 5'6" and 300lbs

I basically have been overweight since the age of 6 and obese since the age of 12. I have this issue where when I don't eat (like miss one out of three meals or go to sleep without dinner), I experience terrible hunger pangs and become extremely depressed. If I try to tough it out, I end up crying and cannot focus on anything at all. I've tried drinking water, tea, exercising, meditating, and trying to go back to sleep. No matter what, I end up eating a meal. After I eat and my stomach is full, I feel fine if not fantastic. When I need something quick, I'll eat tuna or some other meat with rice, a peanut butter jelly sandwhich and a whole pickle, or maybe a turkey sandwhich with cheese and mayonnaise.

This has been my main hindrance when losing weight. No matter how many times I try to lower my calorie intake, I can't stick with it because of hunger. I'm not diabetic. I've recently taken blood tests and they came back normal. So, I'm trying to figure out the root of this problem and how to fix it. I need to lose weight, but the side effects of eating less make me confused on how to do it correctly.

Please if there's any advice, I will gladly take it. I cannot weigh 300lbs for the rest of my life.

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